3 Ways to get over rejection..For a Man..

Visualize this: You see a stunning beauty on the other side of the bar. Your heart starts racing, your palms get sweaty and your cheeks get flushed as your inner voice says, “Go over and say anything! Just start talking!” As you get up to walk over, the same voice asks, “What if you say something stupid or what if you’re not good enough?”

If the risk of rejection is holding you back, put your priorities into perspective: You’ll always regret most the things you never dare to do.

The truth about rejection
Every time you start a new relationship, ask for a second date or introduce your new honey to the family, you face the possibility of rejection. It’s a part of life and can’t be avoided. You can reduce your rejection anxieties, though, by keeping in mind these three universal truths:

Truth #1: The odds are in your favor. At least 33% of the people you approach will not be interested in you romantically. Don’t try to analyze why; there are just too many possibilities. Instead, increase your chances by approaching more women. The more chances you give yourself, the better the odds that you'll succeed

Truth #2: You’re not alone. Women experience the fear of rejection, too. It’s just as painful for both genders. Don’t fool yourself into thinking that one gender gets the cold shoulder more than the other.

Truth #3: There are other fish in the sea. Rejection is only one person’s opinion. That means there are thousands of eligible women ready to hear from you!

bluewolv_blitz*Howled*Thursday, March 24, 2005 ----------